cold culture wars

update - the marriage is on VERY rocky ground..i can't get with the whole african mindset and he sure as hell can't get with the american one..

brief separation (2 whole days)..back together..brief respite then back to the same old bullshit plus never talking and NEVER spending a moment together..

but neither of us will let this go..and i know i'm going to have to be the strong, mature one and end it..and soon..cuz i'm not happy at all